Boy meets girl, they fall in love. Religion, caste, parents, society are the villains of this story. The boy and the girl fight all and they stay happily ever after. But wait. Lets rewind and deconstruct what actually happens between the boy and the girl.
The boy meets the girl falls in love with the girl. Woos the girl till she falls in love with him. Then he realizes how much he loves his family his customs and his culture. Or he realizes he cannot hurt his mother and father. So he thinks the girl is expendable. Then he convinces the girl to compromise. He guilt trips her by saying how much he loves his mother and father and that is the only thing (sometimes many) he is asking of her. She compromises thinking she loves him let it be that is the only thing, let me effing comprise, change myself and try to fit into an alien environment for his sake.
Why the hell guys do that ?
If they love their family so much why the hell they don't find a girl that suits his family. Why does he has to fall for a girl and then change her to fit her according to his family needs. Men are effing selfish and self-centered. They want the girl whom they fall in love with but also want the girl to compromise for his family. Why do they think the girls are expendable
Why the girl should marry the boy?
She was minding her own business when this guy fell for her. He promised the world to her. But he changes everything about her. He is completely fine in asking her to compromise. While his life does not change one bit. He wakes in the same bed. He lives with his mommy and daddy. The icing on the cake he gets to live with the girl who he loves
The society is still the same.
Men still think women are expendable. They put their parents in a pedestal and not for even one second think about the woman. She was bought up in the same way they were. She is the apple of her parents eyes. She is set in her own ways. She is a person. But how easily men priorities.
The fault is with the women.
Yes it is. We have a problem with priorities. We do not keep ourselves in priority. We do not keep our parents in priority.We have a priority problem. However in love we are, ladies remember, if he thinks you are expendable, dump his sorry ass and move on.
The boy meets the girl falls in love with the girl. Woos the girl till she falls in love with him. Then he realizes how much he loves his family his customs and his culture. Or he realizes he cannot hurt his mother and father. So he thinks the girl is expendable. Then he convinces the girl to compromise. He guilt trips her by saying how much he loves his mother and father and that is the only thing (sometimes many) he is asking of her. She compromises thinking she loves him let it be that is the only thing, let me effing comprise, change myself and try to fit into an alien environment for his sake.
Why the hell guys do that ?
If they love their family so much why the hell they don't find a girl that suits his family. Why does he has to fall for a girl and then change her to fit her according to his family needs. Men are effing selfish and self-centered. They want the girl whom they fall in love with but also want the girl to compromise for his family. Why do they think the girls are expendable
Why the girl should marry the boy?
She was minding her own business when this guy fell for her. He promised the world to her. But he changes everything about her. He is completely fine in asking her to compromise. While his life does not change one bit. He wakes in the same bed. He lives with his mommy and daddy. The icing on the cake he gets to live with the girl who he loves
The society is still the same.
Men still think women are expendable. They put their parents in a pedestal and not for even one second think about the woman. She was bought up in the same way they were. She is the apple of her parents eyes. She is set in her own ways. She is a person. But how easily men priorities.
The fault is with the women.
Yes it is. We have a problem with priorities. We do not keep ourselves in priority. We do not keep our parents in priority.We have a priority problem. However in love we are, ladies remember, if he thinks you are expendable, dump his sorry ass and move on.
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